A man tells how Game helped him find a wife

Sebastien W. writes from Europe:

I have been following the articles on Game with great deal of interest.

I came across the Fast Seduction website about nine years ago and it opened my eyes to where I was going wrong with dating. At the age of 30, after some very painful romantic adventures, it finally dawned on me that something wasn’t right. Game explains what women respond to and what drives them. The seduction community is, I feel, a very healthy backlash against the feminising elements that society has inflicted on white males. It’s not only about getting laid. With Game, I was happy just knowing that in many cases I could have done if I wanted to. There are plenty of aspects of female behavior that are examined when studying Game. For example, many women have a really bizarre obsession with their careers and yet claim to want a family. And despite that, keep on working and shelling out money for childcare for very little marginal increase in wealth. I finally grew to accept them for all their quirks and no longer being angry at them. I pretty much just stopped taking them too seriously.

The most important non-physical qualities a woman can have are charm and kindness. These qualities are non existent in feminists and pretty much disappeared in 30 year old women with a busload of previous sexual partners. Kindness and charm are the qualities which, well managed, will never disappear and what makes you want to come straight home after work. I have some lefty friends whose idea of a fulfulling relationship is with what they call an “intelligent” women. These are mostly very argumentative couples. I don’t find American conservative women particularly charming either and feel quite sorry for American males.

I discovered the seduction boards just before the time of the 9/11 attacks. At the time I was also reading a book in French written in the mid ’90s about the demographic and social collapse of France and Western Civilization. Game, 9/11 and the book may seem totally unconnected events, but in fact they were life changing for me. I dated a lot of women over a few short years and although had no desire to marry I met someone and I found in her everything that I wanted as a life team mate.

We were married in 2005. We have a joyful home and I finally found my place in the universe. I was raised a Catholic and started going back to Mass. My wife was christened last year and we have two boys now.. We have no plans on stopping at two.

In my mind, thanks to Game, the reigns of power were handed back to the me. I now am the pater familias and have never been happier. Roissy abuses the power that Game gives him, but in many cases when a man has power, he becomes more responsible. In work as at home, when you hand power over to women you are headed for destruction (for both of you).

Through the seduction boards you can meet others in order to go out and pick up women. I met some great people and I think that my story is probably not so unique.

LA replies:

You wrote:

The most important non-physical qualities a woman can have are charm and kindness. These qualities are non existent in feminists and pretty much disappeared in 30 year old women with a busload of previous sexual partners.

Fantastic comment. It ought to be engraven in marble.

But as for Game, basically all you’re saying is that from the “seduction community” you learned approaches that made you more confident with women and more realistic about what woman want, and that this helped you find a wife. No one at VFR has said that there is anything wrong with things that help men become more confident with and realistic about women. Our objection is to the nihilist worldview that is inseparable from Game, as least as communicated by Roissy.

Posted by Lawrence Auster at August 28, 2009 01:38 PM | Send